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Re: Oop’s I Don’t Have Terminal Cancer (part 3)

paul daniel — Thu, 28 Aug 2008 23:40:00 -0000

i watched the vid of the guy confessing to the anchorwoman and was amazed at his straight up, man up to the whole porno thing...which i noticed not many blogs are focusing on...

if and when the guy is restored (aren't we all restorations in progress) i vote/pray whatever that God uses his new testimony in this area as the pixels have far too many of us not ministering at 100%. And if there's something God can do, it is help a man to see that the reason he likes that stuff so much, it's because HE--God--did a great job on all of it.

BUT GOD DOESN:T TEMPT US WITH EVIL...we do that to ourselves. Let's get real guys. 99% of us can relate. I know I can. So, how bout it, let's get it out there, lets ask God to raise up righteous fox wives to help us keep it real and lets be healed.

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Justin T Brackett — Sat, 23 Aug 2008 12:07:57 -0000

I think that you are right on with this. The church needs to be a safe place. To be real with your sin and to show that you are willing to do what is right.

Justin T Bracketts last blog post..- Preacher faked terminal illness -

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alex — Fri, 22 Aug 2008 21:00:30 -0000

Fred you rock! I hope y'all are safe out there on the fringe of the east coast!

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Fred F. McKinnon — Fri, 22 Aug 2008 20:50:28 -0000

Alex,
thanks for putting my stuff in the links list ... I've been trying to keep up w/ all of this, but my blogroll keeps swelling bigger and bigger. That, on top of a tropical storm ... it's been crazy, crazy. Plus, two funerals this week ... yeah, one of those weeks!

BTW - I did give you a shout-out today on FreePlay Friday - here's to 200 RSS readers!

For the Kingdom,
Fred McKinnon
www.fredmckinnon.com
www.theworshipcommunity.com

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Re: Oop’s I Don’t Have Terminal Cancer (part 3)

alex — Fri, 22 Aug 2008 14:08:14 -0000

Brad, good to see you here. I really liked the way your post conveyed heart and reality. I think we're all pretty much on the same page. At our lowest we are horrible. At our highest we can only depend on God's grace to sustain us.

Tyler, thanks for stopping by. I've also subscribed to your blog.

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tybraun — Fri, 22 Aug 2008 13:57:58 -0000

Brand new to your blog by the way, really dig it man. Subscribing up..I'll be back.

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Brad Ruggles — Fri, 22 Aug 2008 13:48:14 -0000

Great posts and some great comments.

My post on the subject was less on my "response" to the story and more to remind myself to not be to judgmental of those who fall. He screwed up plain and simple. As Christian said, he was a dick. He needs help and his wrong needs to be righted in whatever way his church can make that happen.

I also remind myself that I can sure be quite a dick at times too. I may not have lied about cancer but I've lied about other things I regret. I've done things that haven't been a good representation of the name of Christ. I'm glad grace and forgiveness have been extended to me by God and others despite what I've done.

As I said on my post, But for the grace of God, there go I.

Brad Ruggless last blog post..There’s A Monster At The End of This Post

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alex — Fri, 22 Aug 2008 12:56:40 -0000

Rob I'm so down for that. We ought to kidnap Eric... I'll get in touch with you.

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Rob Tremonte — Fri, 22 Aug 2008 12:53:14 -0000

Hi Alex! Good to hear from you too! If you're not busy in the near future..hehe... let's grab some lunchies! Maybe we can coax Eric too.. ;) Lots of love to ya..

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alex — Fri, 22 Aug 2008 12:37:09 -0000

Rob, that's a good word man. I agree wholeheartedly. And it's good to hear from you. Been hearing good things from Eric about the work you are doing together.

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Rob Tremonte — Fri, 22 Aug 2008 11:57:58 -0000

Hi Alex, I get your blog in my RSS feeder.. I usually don't comment much on blogs anymore... but this strikes a nerve on the comments coming out against this guy.

I don't know him or the song as a matter of fact, and that isn't really the issue... If we being born again and Christ LIVING in us, then we are compelled to act as Jesus. Jesus is FULL of mercy, FULL of grace and love. He keeps NO RECORD of wrong.. as He IS LOVE... and that is an attribute of Love.

You know, this mans sin is no worse than every person gossiping about him. According to God's word is any sin greater than the other? Gossip is just as evil as faking a disease, laundering monies or even killing someone.

Jesus is more concerned with people than He is about making sure the church looks good. He's more concerned over the one's that He loves with a love that goes beyond our comprehension. His eyes are fixed on us as the beloved, as Sons and Daughters of the living God...if we are truly in relationship with Jesus and He is in us... we are compelled to move as He does.

So, in my opinion, we all should ask the Lord's forgiveness and pray for this man and his family for God to heal and deliver him... and most importantly to give thanks to God for his mercy over ALL our lives... and let the ones who are truly in authority over this man, that GOD has placed in his life, deal with him.... and let's concentrate on letting God bring healing to our own lives ... teaching us more how to BE like HIM...

Re: Oop’s I Don’t Have Terminal Cancer (part 3)

Chris Stout — Fri, 22 Aug 2008 01:29:05 -0000

Okay, I don't usually get deep into the theological and hardly pay any attention to the words of songs. I get my feed from the vibes; however, figured I'd add this:

1. Always three sides to the story, Your side, His Side, and the True Side. That true side is God's Side because only he truly knows what has transpired as it is his will.

2. Maybe God was working in his heart, to write the song, bring people closer to the kingdom? Maybe...

3. As you (Alex) told me last night and tonight (as I asked you via iChat): "God tends to work most in times of adversity"

Okay, there's my $.50. Can't say 2 cents anymore...inflation man!

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Hubbaduh — Thu, 21 Aug 2008 23:17:51 -0000

Your list of 7 things is probably the best response that I've read to this so far, as far as what "practically" needs to happen in this situation.

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tybraun — Thu, 21 Aug 2008 21:22:47 -0000

Interesting ideas. I hear now that he is being audited by local officials. I like your cancer research fund idea...that could definitely work.

Thanks for the link.

Tylers last blog post..Not Meant For Praise

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heather — Thu, 21 Aug 2008 21:00:41 -0000

I still like the song...Speaking just for me..Faith has not come gloriously easy. I have to ask for it often. I wasn't raised in a God believing family. It was very hard to accept the idea of God and miracles. This guy Michael wont have the power to take my faith away...BUT I caught myself last night quietly pleading aloud to God to please be real. Does that make a "bad" christian? I hope not. My prayers are that God heals what is truly broken in Michael, Not cancer...I am a girl and my heart goes out to his wife.

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James McLean — Thu, 21 Aug 2008 20:04:35 -0000

i just watched the video for the first time. its just upsetting, but it encourages me too because there is no emotional story better than Christ has died, Christ is risen, Christ will come again. over and over again i have to hear that 24/7, Jesus always bring attention to Jesus, you can't go wrong. this fraud just made the case, there will be tons of phonies trying to distract you, remember Jesus always.

James McLeans last blog post..Moving from Ideal to Real: If Only

Re: Oop’s I Don’t Have Terminal Cancer (part 3)

James — Thu, 21 Aug 2008 19:33:46 -0000

I'll not being able to get together with you guys. I'm too busy faking a dislocated knee and writing a song about my physical therapist to bother with you gullible lot.

Sorry...bad taste...I say we all hit The Yard House is Riverside. Get Kirkpatrick there as well.

Jamess last blog post..The Healer Scandal

Re: Oop’s I Don’t Have Terminal Cancer (part 3)

alex — Thu, 21 Aug 2008 18:52:56 -0000

Yeah (Christian) it's weird how we do attach ourselves to stories like this. I think people want to experience by feeling closer to things. And everyone knows the pain of cancer in some way, so this brought this song to a new level - which is why I think people made such a big deal out of it. Personally I don't think it even needed that - it's a great song on its own.

And now because people grew so close to the (fake) story behind the song, there is now much talk about it. I think it's just part of who a lot of people are.

They tend to engage when they can identify. And in my opinion, that's not always such a bad thing.

On a completely separate note - when are you and James and I going to get together?

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Christian Steffen — Thu, 21 Aug 2008 18:36:27 -0000

Well...I guess what I'm saying is that in church circles we make everything spiritual and sometimes there isn't a spiritual explanation. We're always seeking the why and feel we have to figure out what someone should do to "show they're repentant" etc. I think we just need to cut out the excess. He deceived people, most likely for money. Integrity and Hillsong were gullible, willing accomplices. We let him take advantage of us. I just think we make too much of this stuff. We made too much of his story and of his song. Now we're making too much of his fraud.

Re: Oop’s I Don’t Have Terminal Cancer (part 3)

alex — Thu, 21 Aug 2008 18:26:37 -0000

Christian, I agree with your "assessment" shall we say? I think people need to express their disappointment and anger at what this man did. But you do bring up a huge theological issue on forgiveness. I usually don't get this deep on the ol blog, but...

You said "I don’t need to give him grace or forgiveness. Jesus did that for me.". I don't know man. What about Matthew 6:15? "If you don't forgive others, then my Father will not forgive your offenses".

I happened to just watch the Healer video again (it was on the news site - by the way click on the link above this comment to get more news) - and I was right there with you Christian. This guy is about as low as it gets. Watching him read scripture, lead worship, watching people with tears in their eyes - deceiving so many...

He's definitely messed up. In need of healing.

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tam — Thu, 21 Aug 2008 17:40:21 -0000

yes! #1 - #7

i agree! perfect!

and Christian...LOVE your comment!

tams last blog post..have you ever?

Re: Oop’s I Don’t Have Terminal Cancer (part 3)

Christian Steffen — Thu, 21 Aug 2008 17:35:29 -0000

I always thought he seemed way too fat in that video to be dying of cancer. My thoughts are far less spiritual that most people have made of this. I don't need to give him grace or forgiveness. Jesus did that for me. I don't think we need to explain it, justify it, pray about it, etc. I don't think of Mike as less a Christian if he doesn't have cancer or more of one if he does (it seemed weird to me that people were "hoping the story that he lied wasn't true" that means you hope he really did he have cancer and I for one am glad he didn't).

Plain and simple...I just think he's a dick. Isn't that what you'd say if anyone else you knew, Christian or not, songwriter or not, Australian or not, pretended they were dying when they weren't. He's a dick. I know a lot of dicks. Admittedly, none of them lie about having cancer or aids or anything (although, Russell Brand said he once claimed to have aids in order to get some time off from work).

As Christians we always feel we need to have some sort of "response" on this stuff. I'm not sure we do.

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Scott Williams — Thu, 21 Aug 2008 17:27:33 -0000

I remember checking out the video on Los' site and then reading about the dram later. It's really a sad deal!

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